Saletan, William, Shag
the Dog, The Fray, April 4, 2001
Years ago, advocates of sexual abstinence came up with a clever motto to instill
chastity in youngsters. "Pet your dog, not your date," they preached.
They may live to regret those words. The love that dare not bark its name is now
a front-page topic, raised at White House news conferences and in state
legislatures, thanks largely to philosopher Peter
Singer. In an essay titled "Heavy Petting," Singer asks:
What's wrong with fondling Fido? The essay, coupled with two scandals involving
sex with dogs—one confirmed in Maine and the other alleged by investigators in
California—has elicited cries of outrage and disgust. But the outcry has been
largely thoughtless. It's easy to say that becoming more than friendly with
man's best friend is wrong. What's hard is backing up that statement with a
principle, and reconciling that principle with your beliefs about meat-eating,
sexual orientation, or, in Singer's case, pedophilia.
Salscheider, Angela, Labeled for Life;
Angela Salscheider, wsaw.com, May 2006
With Web sites that allow you to track where sex offenders live, many of you are now aware some live right in your own neighborhood.
That knowledge is putting a new kind of pressure on people to keep themselves and their kids safe, but what you may not know is how this
also affects the offenders and their families.
Saltzman, Jonathan, Curley family drops case against
NAMBLA;
The Boston Globe, April 23, 2008
"There was never any evidence that NAMBLA was connected to the
death of
Jeffrey Curley,'' said Wunsch. "It's been our view that for the
last
eight years, it's been the First Amendment that's been the defendant in
this case. In America, there's freedom to publish unpopular ideas, and
that's what this case was about."
Sampson, Ovetta, These friends
bridge the gap between young and old, The
(Colorado Springs) Gazette
Michael Atwell arid Bill Brockelman are best buds. The next-door neighbors do
everything together. They fish. They fix up old rods and reels. They tell
stories. They cruise the flea markets. And after Michael gets out of school, he
usually makes a beeline to his Fountain home just to hang out with Brockelman.
The two have been friends for four years.
They view their friendship as ordinary But many people might see it as unusual,
because Michael is 12 and Bill is 71.
About
Sandfort, Theo:
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McHarry, Mark,
Two Sane Perspectives on Man-Boy Love, From Gay Community News (Boston),
December, 1983, Book Review pp. 1-8; Reviews of
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The Man They Called A Monster, Paul Wilson, Cassell Australia
Limited, North Ryde, New South Wales, Australia, 1981, 150pp., $12.00 |
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The Sexual Aspect of Paedophile Relations, Theo Sandfort, PAN/Spartacus,
Amsterdam, 1982, 136pp., $12.50 |
Both books show the harm in the current blanket ban on any adult-child
relation involving sex. Whether society will come to see this as worse than
man-boy relations themselves will probably depend on whether
pederasts/pedophiles — and young people — are able to organize and right
for their rights.
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Sandfort, Theo; Brongersma, Edward & Van Naerssen, Alex; Man-Boy
Relationships: Different Concepts for a Diversity of Phenomena; Introduction
to Male Intergenerational Intimacy, Journal of Homosexuality Volume 20,
1/2, 1990
In contemporary Western society, intimate and sexual relations between men and
boys are considered as immoral, unlawful, psychologically deviant and damaging
to the boys involved, regardless of the emotional contexts in which they occur.
By almost exclusively studying these relationships as forms of sexual abuse, the
social sciences have narrowed our view of this subject. The current social
climate makes it rather difficult to look at these relationships in an objective
way.
Sandusky, Kyle
Sex Offenders Myths And Facts; The Chronicle, Oct 17, 2006
In lieu of fostering a fearful witch-hunt mentality for election year sound
bites, politicians should step up to this societal challenge. Additionally, the
media should strive to dispel the myths and create the environment for policy
and subsequent legislation to succeed, creating a safe society for all children.
Sarler, Carol, Paedophiles
may be mad or bad. But not both. If Gary Glitter is a criminal, and not
mentally ill, then he has paid the price and we should not punish him again; The
Times August 21, 2008
"The solution, therefore, is
| either to declare all those on the sex offenders register to be unwell and apply open-ended treatment, compassionately, according to the severity of their condition - |
| or to declare them criminals, take our several pounds of flesh and let them go. |
Mad or bad. But we can't, in conscience, have it both ways."
Satter, Andrew, Child
prost. claims disputed; UNICEF stands by report alleging border trafficking;
The Prague Post, November 6, 2003
The Czech-German border region is a haven for the commercial sexual exploitation
of children. Or it isn't. It all depends on whom you ask.
In late October the German branch of UNICEF, the United Nations organization for
children, released a report by the German social-work agency KARO asserting that
the borderlands are home to widespread pedophilia and child prostitution. Czech
officials said that KARO is home to a self-promoting writer seeking to exploit
the issue for publicity purposes.
Sawyer, Miranda, Sex is not just for grown-ups;
The Observer, November 2, 2003
The age of consent has been set at 16 for the past century.
Now, the Government wants to tighten the law. In this provocative and personal
argument Miranda Sawyer says the Home Office is wrong: it would be better for
everyone if we lowered the age to 12
Sartwell, Crispin, It's time for us to
rethink boyhood, souce unknown
Masculinity still means aggressiveness, but now that aggressiveness is frowned
on and pathologized, to the undoubted delight of the makers of Ritalin.
Masculinity in boys seems to be something to be treated rather than something to
be celebrated. [...]
If we don't rethink boy- and manhood, we risk creating a seriously asymmetrical
generation of young people in which the females have changed but the males
haven't, in which femininity is cool and masculinity is medicated. We're
creating a generation of boys who are going to be puzzled and conflicted about
how to be men. In fact, most men are already puzzled about how to be men.
Sayed Yaqub Ibrahimi, The Dancing Boys of the North;
IWPR, Ariana Afghanistan WorldWide Broadcasting,
October 14, 2007
Wealthy strongmen recruit adolescent boys for entertainment and sex,
with the local authorities powerless to stop the practice.
‘Some men enjoy playing with dogs, some with women. I enjoy playing with
boys,’ said Allah Daad, a one-time mujahedin commander in the northern
Afghan province of Kunduz.
Sax, Marjan & Deckwitz, Sjuul, When You Change
the Gender, Reality Changes Too, From Paidika, The Journal of
Paedophilia, Issue 8, Special Women's Issue
As we have come to understand the subject from a female perspective, we have
found it irrelevant, even counter-productive, to label the similar eroto-sexual
experiences of women “female paedophilia.” This would only place it in that
frame of reference defined and described by the male perspective. The fact that
we were unable to find many traces of so-called “female paedophilia”
strengthened our feeling that we should reject the use of the term.
Schmidy, Randolph E., Family
Members Are Common Kidnappers, The Associated Press
One of parents' major fears is the lurking stranger who suddenly grabs and
kidnaps their child.
But a new government study released Monday shows that parents need to worry
about more than stranger danger: Youngsters are more likely to be kidnapped by
an acquaintance.
The most common kidnapper - listed in 49 percent of cases - is a member of the
child's family, said the report ``Kidnapping of Juveniles,'' released by the
Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Programs.
Schneider, Betty, Jessica's Law triggers mess for state;
LA Daily News, 12 September 2006
Over 70 percent of California voters backed Proposition 83, "Jessica's Law." And, as in Iowa before it, the legislation has
engulfed the state in a legal morass. Does it apply retroactively?
Was it framed honestly and precisely? Is it even constitutional?
It's unlikely that most busy citizens who punched "yes" had closely explored Proposition 83's paradoxes and knots. They only saw its
bare-bones title, "Sexual Predator Punishment and Control Act" - a red flag raised in the name of kids - and immediately saluted.
Schoets, David, Lesson Lost on
Teacher? 3rd Sex Rap - Florida Middle School Teacher Held
Without Bond After Her Third Arrest in Six Weeks; ABC News, April 29,
2008
A school resource officer first asked the boy about the rumors and then
detectives investigated. They had the boy call Ragusa under police
direction and she "admitted to the interaction," the sheriff's
office said at the time.
Schofield, Kevin, Call
to reduce the age of consent to 14; The Scotsman,
Sat
17 Feb 2007
The controversy over the legal age of consent has been re- ignited after a Scots academic called for it to be lowered to 14.
Dr Matthew Waites, a lecturer in sociology at Glasgow University, said lowering the age limit from 16 to 14 for young people who are less than two years apart would recognise the fact that many teenagers regard sex as "normal behaviour".
His comments were described as "madness" by a family charity, but one of Scotland's leading child-protection bodies said under-16s who engage in consensual sex should not be
criminalised.
Schultz, E.J., Jessica's Law comes to
California; Some worry ballot initiative would bring sex offenders to the
Valley; Bee Capitol Bureau, 10/23/06
If the proposition passes, California would become the 26th state to enact a version of Jessica's Law, named for Jessica Lunsford, a
9-year-old Florida girl who was murdered last year by a convicted sex offender.
If the measure passes -- and polls indicate it will -- registered sex offenders
would be prohibited from living within 2,000 feet of any school or park. Large
parts of urban Los Angeles and San Francisco would be off limits -- but not big
chunks of the wide-open San Joaquin Valley.
[About:] Schultz, Pamela D.
Schultz speaks out on sexual offender policies;
Author & source unknown; dated December 1, 2006
Dr. Pamela D. Schultz, associate professor of communications at Alfred University, presented two papers at the annual meeting of the
National Communication Association in San Antonio, TX, in November.
"In the United States, concern over child molestation and child molesters has attained the status of moral
panic."
"The rhetorical constructions of child molesters have inspired politically expedient but ultimately
ineffective and potentially even dangerous means of combating the crime, such as Megan's Law."
Schultz, Pamela D., Treatment
for sex offenders can protect community; But the problem of readmitting
perpetrators to society will never be solved if we allow misplaced fear and
paranoia to guide us; OPINION, By Pamela D. Schultz; Newsday [Melville, NY],
December 3, 2006.
The hunt for released sex offenders, in particular child molesters, has become a
moral panic, a mass-mediated wave of irrational public fear. Public policy is
based on the idea that child molesters lurk in every neighborhood, playground,
schoolyard and public park. [...]
Child molesters cannot be hiding beneath every rock; there aren't enough of
them.
Schultz, Pamela D., Treatment
for sex offenders can protect community; But the problem of readmitting
perpetrators to society will never be solved if we allow misplaced fear and
paranoia to guide us; OPINION, By Pamela D. Schultz; Newsday [Melville, NY],
December 3, 2006.
The hunt for released sex offenders, in particular child molesters, has become a
moral panic, a mass-mediated wave of irrational public fear. Public policy is
based on the idea that child molesters lurk in every neighborhood, playground,
schoolyard and public park. [...]
Child molesters cannot be hiding beneath every rock; there aren't enough of
them.
Schofield, Kevin, Laws to keep children safe 'getting out of hand';
Scotsman, 16 Nov 2006
New child-protection laws introduced in the wake of the Soham murders are "creating a climate of social distrust" between adults
and young people, according to a parents' group.
Scott,Sue; Stevi Jackson & Kathryn Backett-Milburn,
Swings and roundabouts: risk
anxiety and the everyday worlds of children, Sociology 11/1998
A number of key antinomies have emerged in relation to children and childhood in
late modernity: in particular, contradictions between recognising children's
autonomy and the increasing emphasis on child protection; the paradoxical
perception of children as both at risk and as a potential threat to other
children and to social order. These contradictions may be expressed as tensions
between two conceptualisations of children: as active, knowing, autonomous
individuals, on the one hand, and as passive, innocent dependants, on the other.
Our focus here is on risk and risk anxiety in general and more specifically on
the sexualisation of risk in relation to children and the consequences of this
for children's daily lives. In a climate of increased public and professional
anxiety about the sexual abuse of children, notions of sexual risk increasingly
inform political debate, public policy and child education campaigns around
safety and danger.
Sean, Rusty
[External link]
Once there was a boy named Rusty. He was 9 years old. [...]
"No son of mine is going to be a homosexual!" said Father. "God
says it's bad. If you don't give up this fireman business, we'll kick you out of
the house!" [...]
"What you need is a good family psychiatrist!" said the man on the Gay
Hotline. [...]
"Not to worry, folks. Being gay is a perfectly normal variation of human
sexuality," said Dr. Goldenberg. "The best thing you can do is to
accept Rusty for who he is." [...]
Seaton, Matt, The
wrong is in the eye of the beholder - A part of: Pornography in the
eye of the beholder; Context should govern how we judge artistic images of
children; March 9, 200, The Guardian
[...] Artists cannot ultimately control what people make of their work, but there are laws of copyright to restrain improper distribution. Unfortunately, part of the context governing the meaning of these pictures is a state of heightened anxiety about child sex abuse and paedophilia.
Where images of adult nudity are concerned, we have a category for stuff we haven't quite made up our minds about - a practically useful, if morally gray, area of sexual content known as "the erotic".
[...] The final irony of the Schneider case is that it is precisely those who are most hysterically insistent on the innocence of childhood who are, by their actions, reneging its possibility. To slap the label of pornography on any nude image of a child is, through fear, to view everything with the tainted eye of the paedophile. Is that really a grown-up way to look at the issue?
Sharpe, Robin, A visit with
the doctor, November 1994.
I probably would not have come to Amsterdam if not to see the Old Dutchman,
which is how I think of and privately refer to Dr. Edward Brongersma. In
my letters I always address to him as Doctor. I had come to admire the Doctor
from his writings and our regular correspondence over the previous three years.
Dr. Brongersma had a distinguished career as a lawyer and politician in The
Netherlands but now is perhaps best known for his extensive writings on boylove
which is why I wanted to meet him.
Sigusch, Volkmar, Ein
Geschundener: Alexander Ebbinghaus, Sexualmedizin 10/1984, S. 576f.
Pädophilie wird mit jahrzehntelangem Freiheitsentzug bis zum Tod geahndet und
ein Geistlicher segnet die Atombombe, die die USA über Hiroshima zünden. Sie
nannten die Atombombe Little Boy. Was ist das für eine Welt?
Silent Sufferer, "It
is your body" - Gee, what do I tell him? Poor lad;
2007-February-11
The subject came up about
"inappropriate touching". Tommy raised some interesting observations.
He's quite astute for his age and very intelligent. He's always thinking for
himself.
We discussed this "touching" in detail after he had a lesson in school
about good
touch/bad touch. The teacher said that no one has the right to touch his
body. It nearly made him cry.
Tommy was utterly confused, and rightfully so. How your body could be yours, but
controlled by someone else is a pretty scary concept. The conversation went as
follows: [... ... ...]
Silmalis, Linda, Bill Henson scandal prompts overhaul of art laws;
The Sunday Telegraph, October 26, 2008
LAWS regulating child nudity and art will be overhauled in New South
Wales the wake of the Bill Henson controversy.
Photographers and film-makers will no longer be able to rely on a legal
defence of "artistic purpose" under one of the biggest shake-ups of NSW child-protection laws.
Silverman, Jon, What
is a pornographic photograph? - December 18, 2002 The Guardian
Jon Silverman reports on the growing paranoia that is now threatening even the
most innocent of occasions - the school nativity play.
Singer, Peter, Virtual vices;
Daily Times (UK), July 20, 2007
The burst of publicity about virtual paedophilia in Second Life may have focused on the wrong target. Video games are properly subject to legal
controls, not when they enable people to do things that, if real, would be crimes, but when there is evidence on the basis of which we can
reasonably conclude that they are likely to increase serious crime in the real world. At present, the evidence for that is stronger for games
involving violence than it is for virtual realities that permit
paedophilia.
Simon, Stehanie, About
Kids and Sex; Many would recoil, but some
scholars are urging more open discussion of children's sexuality.
Los Angeles Times, June 3, 2002.
Their theories are explosive, even subversive. They are also a very hard
sell, especially now, when the horror of predatory priests rumbles ever louder.
Nonetheless, a handful of maverick writers and academics are calling for a
cultural revolution when it comes to children and sex. They argue that we
protect our children too much. They insist that much of what we fear as
"abuse" is actually healthy sexual expression.
Simon, Stephanie, The
Problem With 'Consent'; At the
time they may have felt grown up, but youngsters who had sexual encounters with
adults look back with mixed emotions; Los
Angeles Times, June 3, 2002
Advocates of giving children more sexual freedom insist that most can handle it.
They argue that if an adolescent girl says she wants sex, she's expressing a
very natural desire -- and should be free to act on it. If she chooses to get
intimate with an adult, why should society care?
That's the argument Christine would have made at 13.
"I was so self-righteous," she said. "I kept saying that age
doesn't make any difference."
Yet she recognizes now -- after two years of therapy -- that even as she was
proclaiming herself in love, she was turning to drugs and alcohol to hide a
deepening despair. Consent was starting to feel like coercion
Singer, Peter, Heavy Petting
Not so long ago, any form of sexuality not leading to the conception of children
was seen as, at best, wanton lust, or worse, a perversion. One by one, the
taboos have fallen. The idea that it could be wrong to use contraception in
order to separate sex from reproduction is now merely quaint. [...]
But not every taboo has crumbled. Heard anyone chatting at parties lately about
how good it is having sex with their dog? Probably not. Sex with animals is
still definitely taboo.
Smit, Kim, Web site down after filing of suit;
Sex-convict registry critic besieged by harsh online criticism; ARIZONA DAILY STAR,
2008
If you Google Jan Kruska's name, you'll find dozens of Web sites calling
her a pedophile, a convicted child molester, a psychopath and an advocate for sex offenders.
Since she testified against sex-offender registries to a state legislative hearing in 2006, the 38-year-old mother of four has seen her
picture, address, phone numbers and other personal information published
on often-anonymous Internet venues.
Smith, Jordan
| The Satanic Abuse Scare; The
Austin Chronicle, March 27, 2009
The sensational charges against Fran and Danny Keller and their home
day care were not unique. By 1992, the year the Kellers were tried,
about 100 child-care workers across the country had been charged with
ritual sex abuse of children, and 20 day care workers had been
convicted in similar cases.
The most notorious concerned the McMartin Preschool in Manhattan Beach, Calif. There, more than 300 children would eventually
make statements accusing their teachers not only of sexually violating
them but also of subjecting them to bizarre, ritualistic abuse.
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| Believing the Children; The
Austin Chronicle, March 27, 2009
It's likely Fran and Danny Keller were innocent of charges of child
sexual abuse, but they're still in prison after 17 years. When the
little girl on the witness stand said, "No, it didn't
happen," Frances Keller put her head in her hands and began to
sob. [...]
[...] there is a growing body of psychological research reflecting
that, essentially, the opposite is true – that children can easily
be led to make up stories and even come to believe those stories –
often with the help of inexperienced or credulous interviewers.
Moreover, experts on the forensic interviewing of children say that
the recorded Keller case interviews are prime examples of poor
technique and manufactured testimony – effectively useless as
evidence.
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| Children and Testimony; The
Austin Chronicle, March 27, 2009
There is a growing body of psychological research reflecting that
children can easily be led to make up stories, often with the help of
inexperienced or credulous interviewers. |
Smith, Craig S., Kandahar:
Quieto, que es secreto abierto: los
jefes militares y la pedofilia
The New York Times
, 21 de febrero de 2002
KANDAHAR, Afganistán — En el siglo XIX,
miembros de la tribu
Pastun luchando en el ejercito colonial de Gran Bretaña cantaban odas
sobre su anhelo por los niños jóvenes.
Hace
mucho tiempo que la homosexualidad, envuelta en la tradición de vínculos
masculinos fuertes que son el sello distintivo de la cultura islámica y
son aun más pronunciados en la sociedad estricta segregada del sur de
Afganistán, ha sido una parte clandestina de la vida aquí.
Smith, Jennifer, Residency
laws for sex offenders under microscope; Restrictions aim to prevent
repeat crimes, but critics say all laws do is prevent offenders from rebuilding
lives; Newsday [Melville, NY], December 3, 2006
1) Article
2) Voices in the sex offender debate - Several authors
3) Pending and and current laws on LI
Experts in sex-offender treatment and recidivism say there is little proof such
measures keep communities safer or prevent sex offenders from striking again.
[..] Experts say making it harder for sex offenders to find housing can lead to
stress and instability, which can increase the likelihood they will re-offend.
"Most sex offenders do not re-offend,"
said Karl Hanson, a senior research officer with Public Safety Canada who
studied sex offenders for two decades.
Smiths, Mark K., Young
people, informal education and association, Mark K. Smiths, September 2001
In this paper, compiled for the Young People and Informal Education
Conference held at the University of Strathclyde in September 2001, Mark K.
Smith argues for the recovery of association as a central theme in work with
young people, and the need to re-embrace the notion of the club.
Southcoast Today, Churches
grapple with allowing sex offenders to join spiritual community; May 25,
2008
Religious communities minister to people's spiritual needs, offering a place for
healing -- but what happens when the person seeking restoration is a convicted
sex offender?
Spiecker, Ben
& Steutel, Jan, Paedophilia, Sexual Desire and
Perversity, Journal of Moral Education, 09/01/1997; This paper first criticises the
justifications that are given by paedophiles for having sex with children.
Stix, Nicholas, Child
Molester Hysteria in New York; Many of those who claim to be dedicated
to protecting children are actually more interested in terrorizing grownups; 29
January 2005, webcommentary.com.
Apparently, a new child molester is roaming South Queens, New York – me!
I say that, because recently a girl of about 11 years of age walking in my
neighborhood kept nervously looking over her shoulder at me. When I sought to
comfort her with a kindly smile, she became even more alarmed.
Streets safer for children than
ever before, 11th June 2000, Author & source unknown
New research has established that the frequency of child abduction, murder,
attack and injury in car accidents is lower than for a decade - but parents are
increasingly anxious. The myth of lurking danger behind every street corner has
so alarmed the children's charity Play Scotland that at a conference in Glasgow
yesterday it set out to convince parents that they are damaging children by
being unnecessarily overprotective.
Stutzman, René, Woman accused of raping 5-year-old still jailed awaiting trial;
Sentinel, November 25, 2007
Eleven years ago, Kelly Lumadue, then 21, had sex with a 5-year-old boy.
There's no disputing it. It was captured on videotape. But should she spend the rest of her life in prison?
[...]
The boy, now age 16, was not a witness at her trial. He does not remember what happened.
[...] But just because the boy does not remember, does that mean he was unharmed?
That is impossible to know, said Dr. Barbara Mara ...
Sunday Times, Articles about the overprotection of children
in the UK:
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a. 'Stranger danger' warning to young - draws criticism. "
CHILDREN as young as two should be taught the rudiments of personal safety and advised
never to talk to strangers, a children's charity will say today." |
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b. Paranoid parents 'denying children freedom to play, 3rd August 1999.
"CHILDREN
are being denied the opportunities for play enjoyed by previous generations because of
their parents' paranoia, research will confirm this week." |
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c. Comment in the Sunday Times. {..} " Had I been a man, she'd
have called the police. Nowadays, the only unpaid adult interested in our children is
expected to be a paedophile." |
Swallows, Amazons... prisoners, July
15 2000, author & source unknown
We take away our children's freedom, something which for adults would be called
a right. Each time I write about this subject I get letters from fellow mothers
who say they have been shunned by the parents of their children's friends
because they are deemed to have an "irresponsible" attitude to safety.
I say the responsible way to behave is to keep your fears in proportion, train
your children to cope with danger and allow them to reclaim the streets.
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